It’s only over when I’m dead

Until death, all defeat is psychological

I am lucky to be born a man, surrounded by my loved ones who happen to be mostly women and needs my support. I knew since I was young, my mission is to be a real man in the house and be someone that my loved ones could count on. I would never refuse a chance to be their shoulders, be the one who takes responsibility, and gives as much comfort and assurance to the people around as possible.

An I think most men should think that way.

You can take many L’s in your life, you can be defeated one after another. But if you get back up enough times, you will win. Take punches in your face, get up, and try again.

“Maybe in another life”. You’re just weak and gay. Get up and try your best, it’s going to work out.

Stop living in regret. Your past no longer exist unless you keep thinking about it.

Start changing your self talk. Start telling yourself a new story. Start creating a new future.

Don’t try to over-scheming things. Just do what your heart tells you, you’re going to be alright. Retardmax your way to it.

Every time you hesitate, someone less talented takes your spot. the world rewards audacity, not potential, confidence over cowardice.

Don’t dare to belittle yourself. Think like the person you want to be, at the core of your soul. Larpmax your way to it.

Cogito, ergo sum.

You learn nothing from life if you think you’re right all the time. Life is too short to worry about stupid things. Have fun. Fall in love. Regret nothing, and don’t let people bring you down. Study, think, create, and grow. Teach yourself and teach others.

Whatever you do, do not give up.

Embrace the journey

The reasons many “made it” people are miserable is because they no longer having purposes, they run into identity crisis, they don’t know who they are and what they should be doing. That’s why many of them take drugs, develop creepy behaviors, and become a social freak.

Don’t be them.

The only thing matters in life is PURPOSE, you have to always find and chase it. Whether your purpose is to become rich, fit, or happy — You have to find your purpose.

Be addicted to the progress, you only have this life to experience everything. Be a bartender, be a farmer, be a rockstar. Experience more, find your purpose.

Struggle and hardship is not the end but a wonderful part of the journey. Embrace it. Feel it. The process IS the reward.

By Mark Manson.

I wanted the reward and not the struggle.

I wanted the result and not the process.

I was in love with not the fight but only the victory.

And life doesn’t work that way.

Below is a poem written by the great Christian D. Larson.

Promise Yourself

To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.

To talk health, happiness and prosperity to every person you meet.

To make all your friends feel that there is something in them.

To look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true.

To think only of the best, to work only for the best, and to expect only the best.

To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own.

To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.

To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and give every living creature you meet a smile.

To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others.

To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.

To think well of yourself and to proclaim this fact to the world, not in loud words but great deeds.

To live in faith that the whole world is on your side
so long as you are true to the best that is in you.